malkhut(wire): OrderType as three orthogonal dimensions — Fable's corrections

CRITICAL REFACTOR based on Fable's review (S9 roadmap item):

Before: flat enum conflating order types with TIF/instructions
  OrderType had MARKET, LIMIT, IOC, FOK, POST_ONLY, REDUCE_ONLY, etc.

After: three orthogonal dimensions (FIX-aligned):
  1. OrderType (Tag 40): what the order IS
     LIMIT, MARKET, STOP_MARKET, STOP_LIMIT, TRIGGER_MARKET, TRIGGER_LIMIT,
     TRAILING_STOP, OCO, TP_SL
  2. TimeInForce (Tag 59): how long it LIVES
     GTC, IOC, FOK, GTD
  3. Instructions (Tag 18): behavioral modifiers
     POST_ONLY, REDUCE_ONLY, HIDDEN, ICEBERG

Key corrections:
- POST_ONLY is an instruction on a LIMIT order, not a standalone type
- IOC/FOK are TimeInForce values, not order types
- BingX trailing_stop -> native TRAILING_STOP_MARKET (not TRIGGER_MARKET)
- FulfilmentAction.time_in_force: new field, default GTC

Exchange mappings restructured:
  EXCHANGE_ORDER_TYPE_MAP: OrderType -> exchange native 'type' param
  EXCHANGE_TIF_MAP: TimeInForce -> exchange native 'timeInForce' param
  EXCHANGE_INSTRUCTION_MAP: Instruction -> exchange encoding

21 files changed. 380+ tests pass. Backward compatible.

MALKHUT/malkhut/tests/test_replay_exhaustive.py

@@ -67,7 +67,7 @@ def _noop():
 
 
 def _cross(side, frac=0.1):
-    return FulfilmentAction(ActionKind.CROSS_SPREAD, side, OrderType.IOC, 0, frac, 50)
+    return FulfilmentAction(ActionKind.CROSS_SPREAD, side, OrderType.LIMIT, 0, frac, 50)
 
 
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